Monday, January 10, 2011

Bombs

The photographer asked if I would reconsider, and if we could get together Friday, and I said ok.  I made supper, and we spent a quiet evening in.

My feelings haven't changed from ambivalence, and I spent a good part of the weekend trying to figure out how to break up with her yet again.

Today I spent the day primarily working, putting in 9 and a half hours on my first contract of the year.

Tonight she noticed that I had taken a moment out of that to pop onto the online dating site where we met.  She e-mailed me and told me not to bother calling her again.

It's not the way I would have wanted it, but was there any way it was going to end without her feeling hurt?

2 comments:

  1. well to be fair, she must have been on the same site?

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  2. Yes, of course... I just felt terrible, even though I wasn't keeping anything a secret.

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