Should I continue with this relationship?
Well, there are good aspects, but I don't feel any chemistry at this point, she doesn't seem to want to ever go out and do anything, and I need someone more positive and outgoing. Someone to draw me out, not invite me back into a shell.
Speaking of which ... I feel, oddly enough, like working more. Not at the moment, as it is Saturday and I'm pretty tired, but that's what I plan on doing for awhile. Ok, I'm actually working a bit at the moment. I could use a little extra money... I really spent quite a bit last month, and now this month there are the usual school year startup costs, which I'm covering by myself (my choice).
The boys are off to play paintball with friends this afternoon, their first time doing so. They're a little nervous, but they'll come back merely bruised I'm sure...
:-)
You seem like you're able to tell fairly quickly whether a girl is "the one" or not. I use "the one" very loosely here. How can you tell?
ReplyDeleteEr, this seems like an assignment. If you could draw a picture too, that'd be great. :)
I swear I have permanent bruises from playing paintball. 5 years ago.
I almost tried to draw a picture, but then realized I'm no artist! *grin*
ReplyDeleteIt's a feeling, or more correctly, either you feel it or you don't. It's not that you have to feel it the first time you meet someone, but you have to feel something sometime!
Then there's the lengthy checklist based on my experiences to date. I'm not sure that this would necessarily override the gut feeling if I were truly excited... I just don't know...
It's not only about who the person is, but also what "who the person is" will do to you or make you do. You want to make sure that the parts of you that you like will remain intact.
I guess I'm saying that... It's complicated, and it's simple.
Maybe the no is the simple part, and the yes is complicated.