Rejoice

Ok, people, I just realized what I've done with my MSN weeding (2nd this week).

I've chosen quality over surface attributes. Scary. I thought men couldn't do this sort of thing.

:-)

I am spoiled though. Once you've had beautiful, smart, kind-hearted, self-aware, wonderful... even for a month or two... you won't settle for less. Even out of desperation! That's good, you know.

There are three levels, three categories that come to mind.

#1: Friends only. People that you like well enough, but no attraction, no chemistry.
#2: Potential Significant Others: The whole package. See "spoiled", above.
#3: The "what was I thinking" category.

Now there are already many caveats occurring to me. Someone can be in the #2 category, but only be a friend because (a) the feeling must be reciprocal and (b) the circumstances of life prevent them becoming an ongoing significant other. And, as you can imagine, you can goof up and not realize someone should be in category #3. Well, whatever I guess... too many numbers and letters in this post. Feels like a memo.

The point of this entry to me is that I've been spoiled twice, and I plan to be spoiled again, and then stay that way. Everything else is just paddling to reach the other side.